Monday, August 21, 2017

diy: crib sheet

I really love seeing all the beautiful crib sheets pop up in my Instagram news-feed. Sweet little babes sleeping peacefully on top of a soft, gorgeous bed... but those aren't in my budget. Seriously, I clicked the link to one and found it for sale at the grand price of $42!! WHAT?!?!? Don't get me wrong, I am all for paying for quality and especially handmade or health conscious items, but I just do not have that much money to hand over for a crib sheet. So I scoured Pinterest, then headed out to buy some fabric.

The fabric I chose was based off the colors of yarn that I already bought to crochet a blanket for our soon to be here little babe. In my head I kept saying "mustard-wine-aquamarine" since these were the colors I had chosen.
I actually have some of this fabric in the cupboard already from a dress that I made for Aspen last fall. I also have pattern pieces cut out to sew myself a semi-matching dress to Aspen's and now I am certain that I will use scraps to make baby #4 a semi-matching dress as well. Allll the heart eyes y'all! Evidently I really like this fabric line! Also, the new baby is due in October so deep and rich autumn colors are perfect.

On with the tutorial. First note... I am not a seamstress at all. I rarely follow directions and usually just make something up if I don't understand what the directions are telling me when I am trying to actually follow along. So if you have a hard time following my instructions, just make something up that seems like it should work HA! Or just ask me and I will try to explain better :)
First of all, supplies. You will need the following:
  • 2 yards fabric, at least 44" wide
  • 62" of 1/4" elastic
  • matching thread - or contrasting if that is more up your alley!
  • a good, sharp pair of fabric scissors - besides an actual sewing machine, this is my favorite investment in sewing supplies.
  • measuring tape
  • fabric marking pencil - I ended up switching to a Sharpie :)
  • straight edge
1. Important first step, pre-wash your fabric! I never used to do this, but have found through my years that it makes such a difference. Just wash, dry, and press!

2. Lay out your fabric on a flat surface. Cut fabric down to 44" x 67". It is completely fine to include the selvage edge, you wont even see it after the project is complete!

3. Now Fold in half lengthwise, and again the opposite way, so that all four corners of your fabric are at the same point.
{four layers of fabric, all the corner edges}
4. Measure an 8" x 8" square out of the corners, like pictured, making sure you on not on any folds. Cut the two lines that you marked. When you are done and unfold your fabric, it should look as pictured below.
{what your fabric will look like when it's all laid out, after cutting corners}
5. Now we are going to form our "pockets". To do this, take two corner pieces on the same corner and pin them together. The right sides of fabric should be touching so that you can turn it right side out when finished, with no exposed seams. Sew along the edge, with about 1/2" seam allowance. (repeat with remaining corners)
{right sides pinned together}
{finished "pocket" after sewing}
6. With the wrong side of your fabric facing up, you will need to press your elastic casing now. To do this simply fold the edges over 1/4" and iron, on all sides of the fabric. After you have that completed, you will need to fold the edge over another 1/2" and press that seam as well.This will ensure that you don't have any raw edges.
7. Now we will sew along the very inner edge of the elastic casing, being sure to leave about a two inch opening so that we have space to thread the elastic through. (I usually mark this space of with two pins so that I don't get carried away)
8. Measure your elastic 62", not cutting anything yet! I like to take a large safety pin and put it at the measured (62") mark. This way, you don't accidentally pull your elastic all the way through its casing in the fabric and have to figure out how to fish it back out ;) Place another, small, safety pin on the end of the elastic so that you can thread the elastic easily through your fabric.

9. This process takes a little bit and is best to do when you can mindlessly sit for a few minutes and have a bit of patience. Insert the small safety pin into the opening you left in the casing seam and start pushing/threading the elastic all the way through.
10. Once you have reached the other side of the opening, you will want to sew the elastic together. Remove you safety pins carefully and place one end over the other, sew back and forth on the elastic a few times to be sure it is secure.
{being sure that the elastic is flat and lined up}

11. Now that your elastic is one large loop, tuck the part you just sewed into the opening you left in the casing and give your fabric a couple tugs so that the elastic lays pretty flat where the opening is and go ahead and sew the opening closed. YOU HAVE A CRIB SHEET!! Happy Dance :)

12. Note: since I like to wing most sewing projects, I have a tendency to want to secure the spot where the elastic overlaps. See photos below for how I do this by sewing a straight line on each side where the overlap is. This is completely optional and I have been told that I shouldn't do this but I always feel better when I do!


Saturday, August 19, 2017

30 weeks: baby #4



I just visited the OB office a couple days ago and things are going good, besides the pain but baby seems to be healthy so far! I am sure that every mama out there would agree that the pain is ALWAYS worth it! You completely forget about all the discomfort, acid reflux, difficulty breathing, heartburn, and more as soon as you get to hold your precious babe! We did find out why I had been feeling so much movement so low in my abdomen the past couple days, this baby girl decided to do a somersault and is now breech. This isn't as big of a worry as it could be since we still have plenty of time to see if she turns AND because all three other babes were delivered by cesarean so this little girl will also be cesarean... BUT it would be great if she could just flip back down, the correct way :)
According to the pregnancy app on my phone, baby girl is about the size of a cantaloupe. She is supposed to be gaining approximately 1/2 lb. a week until delivery, so that means that I will actually start putting on some weight now too! UH OH! The end of pregnancy always gets me nervous about weight gain.

On my Nesting List for this next week:

  • GET THE FRONT DOOR PAINTED
  • Take the crib down and store it in the garage (I had planned on setting it up by our bed with one side rail off and the mattress level with our mattress, but I know that I won't be able to crawl in and out of bed with how long the crib is after having a cesarean) 
  • wash car-seat, bouncer, and rock & play covers
  • start a "nursing basket" of things I would like to keep close by while nursing
  • clean out the kitchen cupboards :)

Monday, August 14, 2017

simple: weekly clothing prep to keep our mornings running smooth


School starts tomorrow, WHAT?!?!?! Ready or not, here it comes :)

Parker will be going into first grade this year and we are so excited for him! While we have a public school in our little town that he could attend, we have chosen to send him to a private school that is about 15 miles away (more on that decision in another post). Now, 15 miles isn't too far, but that means we will have to leave a little earlier to get him there on time. This also means that to be on time we will have to keep a pretty tight ship in order for things to run smooth in the mornings. 

We all know that a little planning and prep can go a long ways in terms of sanity :) So really, this all boils down to the fact that I don't want to be yelling and rushing and forgetting things every morning. There, I said it. 

I will be so glad to get back to our Weekly Clothing Prep, as I have been slacking in the plan/prep department lately and I can really feel a difference. So... a little more routine is welcome around here, even if that means that summer is fading away. 

To begin, I like to look at the calendar and just check what all we have going on. This plays a pretty big part in my clothing prep. This week is pretty simple. Parker has school Tuesday - Friday. We have a birthday party on Tuesday, and anniversary party on Saturday. My clothing prep online includes Monday - Friday though so I will worry about the anniversary party outfit on Saturday :)

Since it is already Monday, I am skipping today.. only needing four outfits for the week. Parker has recess and PE everyday so will be wearing tennis shoes. This also means he will need a pair of socks for each day. I also will be including Noah (age 2) and Aspen (age 1) into the Weekly Clothing Prep as they will have to be up and ready each morning to go with me and take the oldest to school. 

Starting with the shirts laid flat, lay down their underwear, socks, and pants/shorts, then fold the shirt over and then in half. 



The outfits should stack very nicely in a basket/bin/closet organizer. This little box fits Noah's and Aspen's outfits pretty nicely. Parkers take up a little more space and so I put them in a basket of their own. 

I used to have one of these hanging closet organizers but needed the closet space so switched to the baskets/bins that I just set on top of their shared dresser. 
I let the kids pick their outfit each day. They just have to go to their bin, grab an outfit and put it on. If I do have an outfit for a specific day, I will put a little sticky note on it and they will know not to grab that outfit until the day that I tell them to. 

That's it. Super easy. Super quick. I only think about what they will wear for the week once (besides weekends) and they get a little choice in what to wear. 

Sunday, August 13, 2017

29 weeks: baby #4





So close, yet so far away. That is what the third trimester always feels like for me. At 29 weeks, I am just at the beginning of the the home-stretch! At this point, the sleepless nights and drowsy days are kind of running the show. The Cowboy rolled over in bed the other morning and seen me reading articles on my phone so asked what time it was, "4:26" I told him. He rolled back over, his back facing me now and very loudly questioned, "What the heck are you doing up?". Well, since I had laid there awake since 3:20, I figured that I would at least read up on some things! The boys were sleeping in the living room, after falling asleep watching a movie so I knew that I didn't dare walk out and try to stir around in the house. Then of course I am tired all day long from tossing and turning all night to get comfortable and being up for over an hour in the wee morning hours. Vicious circle it is during third trimester.
                                       {dress: Liz Lange for Target, found on clearance for $7}
At 29 weeks, baby girl is supposedly the size of a pineapple. I don't doubt this as my belly is usually in the way or I feel a big strong kick in the ribs. She is also pressing down pretty low, causing me to feel like I was kicked in the pubic bone... or that she may just come out of my behind... kidding, kind of! HA!

I also have had so much discomfort in my upper abdomen due to my other organs getting pretty squished and the acid reflux plus heartburn is waking me up at night and just pure torture. I have had acid reflux with all my pregnancies but two kids were born with only a little hair, and one was born with a full head of hair... so we shall see what kind of hair-do this sweet baby comes out with.

On my Nesting List for this week is:

  • paint the front door 
  • sew a crib sheet... we actually wont be using the crib for awhile  but I bought the fabric so would like to just get it done and then I will have a back up for Aspen until this new babe needs it :)
  • make a couple tiny hair bow headbands... most of Aspens newborn ones I got rid of, so I would like to have a few on hand 
  • get the baby girl tote out of the garage and wash all NB-3 month size clothes to put away
  • Rearrange kids bedroom to fit Aspens toddler bed... We have to replace the floor in their room so this will be done AGAIN before the baby arrives but I would like to get Aspen sleeping in her own bed before we will have time to get the floor done. 
  • Hang curtains back up for The Cowboy and I's closet... they fell down about 8 months ago and I just rolled them into a ball and shoved them into a corner of the closet...oops!
Next appointment with my favorite OB: This coming Thursday. We are on a 2 week schedule now because this pregnancy has been quite miserable and uncomfortable and just need a little extra monitoring these days. 


My final thoughts this week: With school starting for our oldest in just a few days, and a fourth baby coming to our family in the next few months I just really want to cherish and enjoy the moments with the three blessings that we have in our home already. We used a couple free admission coupons a couple days ago to squeeze in an end of summer Children's Zoo trip and it was perfect. My plans for this last weekend before school starts include a little swimming, a picnic lunch and maybe a farmers market trip. Nothing expensive, nothing that requires a lot of planning or packing or rushing... just slow and intentional time with my loves. 

Thursday, July 6, 2017

fighting the good fight

"Put on the full armor of God, so that you will be able to stand firm against the schemes of the devil."  - Ephesians 6:11

I have been lacking in armor lately. Frankly, I have just been "forgetting" or "too busy" and it honestly has taken its toll on me. I noticed something was missing in the beginning of June. I had grown irritable, crabby, short-tempered, lacking in love and just down right miserable. My family has certainly gotten the brunt of my attitude and it really STINKS when you start to notice that something needs to change...and that "something" is you.

When I went back to work part-time in January I slowly started missing more Sunday and Wednesdays at church due to being "too busy" and lacking sleep and down time. I also kept forgetting or was too tired to wake up early and get some devotional, quiet time with God. When I looked in my journal a few weeks ago, I noticed that I hadn't even written in it since MARCH. Which means that I hadn't had a devotional time of my own, in my bible since then. Whoa. From January- March my entries were hit and miss... probably 30 entries at the most. 


"In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God."-John 1:1

So if the Word is God...and I hadn't been opening my bible to actually get in the word, my armor was slowly falling off. I had grown weak, and vulnerable to the enemy. Without God's word, and God himself to lead me, I had no plan of attack... not much to protect me either. I had basically stripped myself down and left myself open to the lies, to the anger, and unfortunately a lack of love. Don't get me wrong, I still loved my family, with all my heart actually, I just wasn't showing them. I wasn't taking care of my people the way that they should be. I was shouting more at my kids. I didn't care much about keeping my home. I grew irritable with my husband. I was fighting a war with the enemy and too weak to even notice that these things were happening.

After I finally realized what was going on, I knew that I NEED to fight back. I need to keep fighting the good fight. I need to stand up to Satan and let him know that he isn't welcome here. I need to open my heart up and surrender my time, my energy, and maybe even a bit of sleep to let God in. I need to be here for my family, fully present. I need to just open my bible and fold my hands in prayer, no matter what it takes. That is the only way I will be able to wear the armor of God and fight for this crazy, beautiful, precious and forsaken life that I have been graced with. Because without it, life is honestly miserable. 

God Bless friends, love you
Dakota